In Age of Attraction’s inaugural season, 40 multigenerational daters set aside outside opinions and internal biases to find a connection — for the ages. 

From reveals in the Promise Room to heartbreaks at the Commitment Ceremony, six couples navigated personal hurdles and life-stage differences to decide if love is truly ageless. They moved in together, met each other’s friends and family, and spent plenty of time spiraling. The stakes were high — especially for Theresa, who was concerned about her kids’ reactions to her dating a man younger than her eldest son. But it was worth it for the chance to find their person.  

“This might be my rom-com happy ending,” Andrew says in the finale. Did he and the rest of the romantic hopefuls walk into the sunset with a soulmate? 

Keep reading to learn who’s still together after the Age of Attraction finale and reunion for the latest updates on the lives of the Season 1 couples. 

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Libby (22) and Andrew (38)

From day one, Libby and Andrew felt like a sure thing. In Libby’s eyes, the two have been “so solid” during the entire experience. Still, leading up to the Commitment Ceremony, Andrew worried about their age difference. Libby is 22, the same age Andrew was when he had his first daughter. “Your life is just getting started,” he says when they meet at the top of the mountain. “My biggest fear is keeping you from your dreams, even though you’re a part of mine.” 

Despite his concerns about “the age gap, the distance, the timing,” neither was willing to walk away. The two left the experiment “hard launched” as girlfriend and boyfriend. 

Now the couple visit each other every three weeks. “It still feels like the honeymoon phase,” Andrew tells Tudum. Long distance isn’t easy, but they’ve handled it better than either of them expected. “We’ve both been intentional about making time for each other, and our communication has been really strong, which has made a big difference,” he says.   

Andrew hasn’t introduced Libby to his daughters yet, but it’s something they’re working toward. “My daughters are a huge part of my life, so I’m thoughtful about how and when I introduce someone into that,” Andrew says. “Right now, our priority is closing the distance and building a life in the same place.”

Their 16-year difference might’ve given them pause if they had known each other’s ages up front, but thanks to the experiment, it’s hardly been an issue — besides Libby’s glaring lack of Spice Girls knowledge. “Even if our lives looked different on the outside, many of the core values, intentions, and emotional needs were the same,” Libby tells Tudum. “It made me realize how important being aligned on the little things is in a relationship and how far true compatibility can go.” 

For Andrew, it was about “letting the connection speak first,” and then seeing how it would work in the real world. “I wasn’t ignoring the realities of different life stages, but I also didn’t want to lead with that and miss something genuine,” he says. 

Vanessa (49) and Logan (29) 

“I don’t want to go back to my life without you in it,” Vanessa told Logan at the Commitment Ceremony. Instead of echoing her feelings, Logan caught Vanessa off guard by asking for the promise ring he gave her back. Before Vanessa walked away, Logan got down on one knee and pulled out an engagement ring. “It’s been a crazy roller coaster, but I don’t want to get off this ride any time soon,” he says with a cheeky smile. Vanessa said yes to the happily ever after she’s always wanted. 

Almost a year after the fake-out proposal, Vanessa is still shocked by her fairy-tale ending. “We’re still going strong,” she confirms to Tudum. Since filming ended, the couple have gone long distance but try to see each other as often as possible. Once Logan recovers from his second Achilles surgery, nothing will stop him from closing the gap between them — at least, the distance gap. “I’ll be able to move around a lot better, and we’ll continue planning our future together,” Logan adds. 

He’s come a long way since the Promise Room. Before the age reveal, Logan says he felt cautious about outside opinions. “I was nervous about societal pressure and pushback from friends and family,” Logan tells Tudum. After connecting with Vanessa, he was able to let go of the fear. “Age doesn’t reflect interests, mindset, outlook, or alignment,” he continues. “Someone can be at a different stage in life, but if you share fundamental concepts that are core to the foundation of a relationship, age is just a number.” 

Still, no wedding date just yet. The fiancés kept the engagement a secret from family and friends until the show aired. With all the flying back and forth, spending holidays together, and meeting family and friends, the two have used this time to get to know each other and integrate their lives. “We organically let everything unfold,” Vanessa says. 

Their next step is deciding where to live — Ohio, Texas, or somewhere new entirely. “By fall, we plan on moving in together and blending our lives,” Vanessa says. Both love to travel and have a few trips planned. “We want to see the world,” Logan says.

Theresa (54) and John (27)

It took Theresa more than a moment to adjust to the new reality of dating a significantly younger man — especially after learning John is two years younger than her son. Despite the doubt, the two left the experiment committed to embracing the world of outside opinions together. 

Unfortunately, the couple is no longer together, but they remain “very supportive” of each other and talk daily. “We didn’t speak for a few months — or at least, not in a very nice way,” Theresa tells Tudum. “But we’re in a good space right now.” John agrees. “I’m thankful we still have each other even though it’s not in a romantic relationship setting,” he tells Tudum.  

Theresa opted not to disclose her and John’s 27-year age gap to her children, preferring to let them get to know John without the influence and stigma of his age — even after they broke up. Her daughter Lauren found out his true age about 48 hours before Age of Attraction premiered. The three of them were at dinner together when Lauren noticed promotional images that included the participants’ ages. “She was shocked.” It turns out, Theresa’s kids assumed he was around 35 years old.  

Theresa admits that knowing John’s age up front would’ve stopped her from dating him. “It would have changed everything for me,” she says. “I had set the boundary of 38 as my absolute minimum, so I would have passed on John immediately.”

Since the breakup in late July, Theresa has used the time to connect with herself. “I’ve had opportunities to date, but I decided that it was just not the right time to do that yet.” Still, she hasn’t given up hope. “I’m still looking for my life partner, and I know he’s out there waiting to meet me.” John is also single — “No prospects, nothing” — but when asked if anyone has slid into his DMs since filming ended, he’s tight-lipped. “There were some attractive cast members,” he says with a grin, refusing to elaborate further. 

He does feel he left the experiment with a new relationship — or several. “I wanted to come out of the experience with a long-term partner,” John says. “That didn’t happen, but I got 15 best friends.” 

Pfeiffer (23) and Derrick (43)

Pfeiffer never saw herself moving for a man, especially a man with children. “Do I risk it all for a relationship?” In the finale, she decides that she’s “100% committed” to moving to Texas to continue their love story. To reciprocate, Derrick gives her the key to his place in Dallas. 

Pfeiffer visited Derrick in Dallas for his birthday but ultimately called it quits about a month after filming. “It was not a bad breakup,” Derrick tells Tudum. “It was just the reality setting in.” 

Whether or not Pfeiffer felt ready to leave her life in Seattle, she denies age had anything to do with her decision to end the relationship. “With 100% certainty, [age] would not have changed the outcome,” she tells Tudum. Their connection was based on something much deeper than a number. “It was rooted in our shared values, personalities, and outlooks on life,” she continues. “Age doesn’t define those things. Whether he had been 20 or 60, it wouldn’t have altered how I felt.” 

Looking back, neither have regrets about the experience. “Every relationship is an opportunity for growth,” Pfeiffer says. “I feel very grateful to have met Derrick and to have shared this experience with him.” Derrick is also “extremely grateful” for his time with Pfeiffer. “Just because the relationship didn’t last, it doesn’t mean that it wasn’t a positive experience,” he says.   

Pfeiffer wasn’t the only relationship Derrick developed at the retreat. He and Logan hang out in Dallas almost every night. “It’s truly been a blessing to develop this brotherhood,” he says. Outside of gaining “lifelong friends,” Derrick trusts the “right connection will come at the right time.” 

As for Pfeiffer? “I’m unexpectedly and happily off the market,” she says. 

Leah (41) and Chris (26)

Leah arrived at the mountaintop ready to commit to Chris. Despite all the ups and downs, Leah felt “the good times outweigh the bad.” Chris, however, reached a different conclusion, ending the relationship with a desire for friendship. They part on good terms, but after some reflection, Leah says she doesn’t believe Chris ever really cared for her. “You fight for someone you want to be with.” 

Now, looking back at their time together, Leah wishes she had demanded more answers in her relationship with Chris. “I was just trying to respect boundaries, but next time I probably won’t,” she tells Tudum. Her biggest takeaway from the experience? “Never be afraid to speak your truth.” 

Both of them learned a lot from the experience, but Chris in particular felt that age did influence their relationship. “I came in thinking that an older relationship might even be better for me,” he tells Tudum. “And I just don’t think that’s the case anymore.” 

Now, Chris is open to new connections … but in a different format. The Miami millionaire will be on the next season of Perfect Match and plans to take what he learned into Season 4 of the series. “I know I could have been better at communicating [with Leah],” he says. 

Leah says the two of them are “cool” but haven’t maintained an active friendship since filming ended a little over a year ago. Now she’s looking to find her person. “Until there’s a ring on this finger, I’m single and clearly ready to mingle,” Leah says. “DMs are wide open.” 

Vanelle (27) and Jorge (60)

With a gasp heard around the world, Vanelle learned Jorge is 33 years older than she is. Despite the initial shock, the two swapped rings and committed to taking the next step in their relationship. After moving in together, Jorge and Vanelle struggled with communication and lifestyle differences. From perspectives on abstinence to ways of dealing with a stranger on the street, Vanelle felt they were ultimately not compatible; she decided to leave the experiment and the relationship. 

Despite how things ended with Vanelle, Jorge doesn’t feel age influenced their relationship. “Dating someone in a different life stage is no different than dating someone who has a different culture,” he tells Tudum. “You adjust to your differences.” 

Still, some of those differences seemed too wide a gap to cross — regardless of the love they shared. “One of my biggest takeaways from this experience is that chemistry alone isn’t enough,” Vanelle tells Tudum. “You can have a genuine connection with someone, but if your values, communication, or lifestyle don’t align, it won’t sustain long term.”

In her last on-camera interview, Vanelle worried out loud that she would “never feel this way about someone again,” but she’s since changed her tune. “I learned the importance of choosing myself,” she says. Currently single, she’s taken time to reflect on her experience. “I truly believe my husband is out there, and I’m excited about that next chapter whenever he finds me.” 

Jorge also isn’t seeing anyone right now but plans to take what he learned into his next partnership. “Communication can overcome any obstacles a relationship may have,” he says. 

West (30) and Joleen (48)

West is looking for something “authentic and organic” after struggling with dating apps. “I’m kinda addicted to swiping,” he admits. Meanwhile, Joleen has some trepidation coming into the experience because she lives what she describes as a “normal, comfortable life.” Both are willing to leave their comfort zones for a chance to find a new connection. 

When the two hit it off at the retreat, Joleen struggles with not knowing West’s age — especially after observing some of his behavior. “He does immature things like backflips into the cold plunge,” she says. West quickly offers to take Joleen to the Promise Room, knowing his age reveal might help build their connection. “I came here to find love in an ageless environment,” Joleen says, but she isn’t ready to commit to moving in and living with West. “I made myself really vulnerable,” West says. “I feel like she didn’t take me seriously enough and broke up with me before we even started.”